Saturday, September 22, 2012

Kanye, Botswana

Hey everyone!

There's so much to saaayyyyy!!!!!! I probably won't even get to everything I want to but I will try. First and foremost, I am healthy and happy and am living in Kanye for the next two months!

After landing in South Africa, I was terribly nauseous. We had some pretty crazy turbulence that really upset my stomach so I was sad that I wasn't feeling well to do more exploration around the airport. It was a small airport anyway. :P We had to walk downstairs to our terminal but our terminal consisted of a large waiting room with buses waiting outside the doors. We all had to stand with our carry-on's as the bus took us right up to the small express plane that was waiting for us. I felt like such a movie star, kinda like Whitney Houston in the Bodyguard, not going to lie.
Johannesburg Airport, South Africa
Terminals out to the buses


 
Me, feeling all Bodyguard status

Gabarone Airport, Botswana

My lovely Southern friend, Sarah. Love her accent!

Next few pictures are from the lovely Big 5 Lodge in Gabarone , the first day we landed.






Fail on making that face, on my part. Go Lisa.



My family are the nicest people, ever. There is about 7-8 of us in this small house and I have my own room and my own bucket! (I have to take bucket baths. Yay.) The culture here is very familial and traditional so when I met my host family at our matching ceremony they immediately took me in and gave me a Setswana name. My name I've adopted is Rothle Mogakolodi, which I am almost sure none of you will pronounce correctly when you try because I can't even pronounce it.  I was praying I'd get a name I could pronounce and of course they throw in a name that has a rolling R and a click. -__- I won't get much further into that. I have two nieces and pretty much two nephews that live down the street but constantly yell, "Auntie, Auntie!" I love them but they play in the dirt and always get me dirty. =] They constantly tell me I am beautiful and I'm just too spoiled with them. I also think they say that because I'm different and they've never seen anyone like me. haha The mom to my nieces  is a beautiful woman who is 5 years older than I am and her name is Dondo. She teaches me Setswana everyday and I enjoy learning from her. My host mom, who is the head of household, is a respected teacher and when I tell people my name they're like, "Ohhh. Ahhh." I'm guessing those are positive sounds...? Oh, and I can't forget my brother who is 21 years old and insists that I listen to Lil Wayne and Rick Ross. He and I had a pretty lengthy debate over how talented Nicki Minaj is but unfortunately he still loves her. haha My brother, Tau, does most of the cooking and cleaning, which I find is amazing. He is such a nice guy and wishes to see California one of these days so hopefully he will! I'm sad I don't yet have a picture of him but I will soon! I also added him on facebook. haha He is on it 24/7. Much like many people I know. Not naming names. 

Yes, I wash my clothes, bathe, and brush my teeth in buckets. No running water in my home.


I took Thati and Fefe to school on their first day back!

My sister Dondo. I did her makeup and put on fake eyelashes for a wedding she was in. ME. OF ALL PEOPLE! :)

Yaone with a weave on. haha No, it wasn't mine.

Yaone not looking too happy, Thepo, baby Junior, and silly Fefe.

I took this for my sister. (Hey hooch!) This is our house cat that bugs me. Sorry, not a cat person. 
I went to a wedding my second day in Kanye! Let me tell you, Batswana (people from Botswana) LOVE their weddings! It is also wedding season so I probably should expect to be at a lot of them. I met my host family and immediately they said, "We're going to a wedding tomorrow and the next day." Uh, cool. haha It was a very fun and interesting experience but I don't think I would like going to a lot of them because Batswana have these very long weddings that last all day with great food but I feel just like an outsider there. Don't get me wrong, I love how friendly everyone here is. Everyone, everywhere I go, looks at me and says, "Lekgoa! Lekgoa!" Which literally means vomited from the see. It pretty much means white person or foreign person. Which is funny because I'm not white. But I am foreign so I guess it fits. Everybody wants to take pictures of me or with me or ask me things in the little English that they know. And when I try to talk to them in Setswana they laugh at me. But one thing I learned from the Peace Corps is that you will soon get real comfortable and okay with making a fool of yourself on a daily basis. The people here are so nice and friendly, I can't stress that enough. Training is 6 days a week and we learn all sorts of topics like Safety and Security, Women Empowerment, Water and Food Preparation, etc. As you can imagine there is A LOT we need to know to be able to live on our own at our permanent sites in about two months. It is crazy and the days are long but it is well worth it! My favorite is the Setswana language sessions we have because I love language. I look forward to those days.

Moshupa

Traditional Botswana dance. Coolest thing ever.


My lonely walk to the education center 6 days a week.

Combi ridin'. A combi is a van that fills up and takes you where you need to go with no set schedule. One of the cheaper ways to get around.

I love my fat cakes!!!!!!!!! It's really a big ball of dough that's fried. They're dangerous!!!

They love their fatcakes, too!!

Yaone and Thepo




She insisted on "helping Auntie with her backpack."

Just ate some fried chicken today!!!!!!!!!! YUM!!!!!!!!!

So I don't really know what I've missed so far but my time at this internet cafe is running up! I get to come here only once a week, if I'm lucky, so I am trying to remember things to update everyone on. Ahhh, running out of time at the internet cafe. I'll have to post more pictures of me dancing and making a fool of myself at a wedding and other things I've seen here. Also, I have the best health care I have ever had in my life so I feel a bit better about that. Yay for government employees. See you all later and take care!

Go Siame!

Diane Rotlhe Phoolserm


Friday, September 14, 2012

Dumelang!

Hello!

I am here at The Big 5 Lodge in Gaborone, Botswana! We arrived safely yesterday although I had a really bad time on the 16 hour flight. :( But it's OK! The lodge is really cute and everyone in my group are all really kind and helpful. I don't have much time right now and I don't know when I'll be able to log on so I hope everyone is OK and I'm just letting you all know that the weather is perfect, the people are friendly, and I am doing well! Today I will be meeting my host family and will be living there for the next 2-3 months! Also, I have updated my contact info so take a look at that on the right -->



Love you all and hopefully, talk to you soon!


Monday, September 10, 2012

LAX

Hardest goodbye. Ever.

From Philly, with love...I miss you all so much.

Sunday, September 9, 2012

Thankful

Things that I was extremely grateful for today:
  • Great food
  • My car
  • Perfect weather
  • Hot shower
  • Milk tea boba
  • Clean, comfy bed
  • My family/friends
  • Love
Tomorrow I leave for the airport. I've done enough crying for the next 2 years and my family and friends will be with me to see me off at the airport so I am sure I'll do some more. I really don't know if I'll be able to go online tomorrow or the next day so I wanted to tell everyone how thankful I am for life, to be able to live and learn. I love you all, my family and friends, and see you on the other side.

Bye bye for now and take care! Until next time...  :)

Tuesday, September 4, 2012

August

I haven't shed so many tears in one month like I did this past August. Happy tears, sad tears, scared tears; you name it. Although I am trying to stay very positive for the next week to come (I've been doing really good!), I've had to let myself cry a few times, at random moments, too.  I've said it before and I will say it again: this is one of the hardest things I've done in my life, as of yet. I mean, I've held two jobs while going to school full time and supporting my father and this decision is up there, if not at the same level. This past month I have found myself saying goodbye (for now) to most of my friends and it's been a hell of a summer. For those of you who I have had the chance to hang out with and tell you how much I love you, know that I mean that from the bottom of my heart. I can't express, enough, how happy and grateful I am to have the support of all my friends and family (Even you, KevinJD.)





I have never been really "mushy" or showed much PDA as far as my relationship goes, but this past year is an exception. Because I don't care. I have to say that suddenly crying while at dinner or watching a movie is not getting any easier. But Trenton has just been here for me through EVERYTHING. We talked about my decision to go away for the Peace Corps for the past two years so you'd think it'd get easier, right? No, it doesn't. It scares me to death to leave him and to leave everything I am familiar with for the next 27 months. I have to say that I have really been lucky to have him by my side as my friend these past 6 years. If there is anyone who has wholeheartedly supported me in any situation, it is him. I kept telling him how scared I'd be to lose touch and lose constant communication with him and yesterday he gave me the coolest gift. He got us both bracelets that vibrate at the exact same time, every day, so that I'd always be connected to him and so that we'd always have a way of remembering each other each time it shook. What an awesome gift. And what an awesome man.

So Trenton, I'm sorry I told the web about us, but thank you for the gift of friendship and love you have so unconditionally given me and continue to give me. I hope we are forever weird and silly with each other while we go out and save the world. ;p