I have
received emails and questions from prospective volunteers who are questioning
whether or not they should accept their invitation, who are unsure of the
region they’re assigned to, and who are just plain curious what their service
may be like. I decided to write this blog post as insight to what may be
experienced when volunteering in Botswana, Africa. Remember, it is just my experience, nobody elses. I hope you
enjoy it!
First,
congratulations on being invited to serve! I think this is an accomplishment in
itself as the application process is competitive and tedious. I remember how
excited I was when I first got the invitation letter/kit. You should feel
proud. J
My
application process took two years. ( I know, right?) I gave Peace Corps a
mental time frame, that if I didn’t receive an invitation within a certain time,
I would decline. I know that it must’ve taken you a lot of patience to go
through that process. At first, I was nominated for Community Development in an
Asian region. I was soooooo excited for that. When I had complications with my
medical/dental issues I received an invitation for Botswana, Africa. I didn’t
really know how to feel because I was so excited for Asia and now I would be in
a completely different part of the world. When I read that I have been invited
to serve in Botswana I immediately googled ‘Botswana.’ Where is this place?
I’ve never heard of it but I’m sure it’s in Africa somewhere...” Those were the
thoughts in my head. I did have
hesitations like you may be having. I was scared of Africa because of what
little I knew about it and what the media shows us. I think many of us have a
mental image of Africa that includes war, violence, poverty, etc. Maybe those
were just mine, I don’t know. But, like most of you, Peace Corps was a dream of
mine for a couple years and after long thought and research, I decided to take
on this challenge. I told myself I could not judge my possible experience
without having actually experienced it yet. So I prepared to leave in September
2012 and envisioned what my life would be in Africa. It is nothing like that.
(In a good way, though)
If you
choose to come to Africa (I hope you do) your service will come with both
rewards and challenges. My service has been slow but good. We moved to our
sites on November 16, 2012 so it has been only 5 months since swearing-in
although we arrived 7 months ago. Some of us have many projects we’re working
on and some of us have just a few. And both are okay. At first I would make the
mistake of comparing myself to others doing the great and grand things they
were doing but it really is relative to what village you are in and the people
in it. We all have these expectations for ourselves that are unrealistic most
of the time. I have different things I am working on and planning but pretty
much set my own schedule. Right now I am doing health talks at the clinic and
at school. I co-facilitate classes with my counterpart, which you all will be
given, and give her ideas on our upcoming lesson plans. Our goal is to find new
ways that may improve the lives of others while focusing on sustainability
because the point is helping them to better their lives and keep it that way
even when we go back home. I am leading the PACT Club which stands for Peer
Approach to Counseling by Teens. I am also collaborating with other volunteers
for our GLOW Camp which stands for Girls/Guys Leading Our World. Both these
things incorporate life skills which include topics like HIV/AIDS prevention,
Teenage Pregnancy, Substance Abuse Prevention, MCP (Multiple Concurrent
Partners), Leadership Skills, etc. If you are in Community Development and Life
skills like I am you should expect to hear a lot about this during PST, or
Pre-Service Training, which will happen immediately after arriving in country.
I will say that I started these
projects slowly and took my time. There is no right or wrong way to do it.
I live
in Hebron, Botswana which is in the Southeast part of the country near the
border of South Africa. I have 3 other volunteers who are not too far away,
approximately 20-25 kilometers away. Transport to them is very difficult so
even though they are relatively close, I’d have to travel double or triple the
distance just to get to them. I see other volunteers during breaks and holidays
and that is common. It is nice to see each other once and a while after being
in your village for weeks. I recently spent a week with friends in Maun which
is known for the Okavango Delta and safaris. I also visited another
volunteer/my friend in Tshane which is in the Kgalagadi or Kalahari, and that
was fun. It’s nice to see other parts of the country. Since we’ve been here
only 7 months I haven’t had time to travel to other countries yet but
definitely plan to.
I really like my village. When I first got
here I was scared. There was nobody around! My village is small, about 700
people, and everybody leaves to their home villages on the weekends and
holidays. I like it here because I have privacy when I need it but can easily
talk to my neighbors and/or friends. I’ve been lucky enough to make good
friends who will talk to me when I like to and who will help me as much as they
can. I’ve never had any problems with villagers and the teachers I work with
are great. Since I’m in a small village most people know me and will say “Hello
Rotlhe” (that’s my Setswana name) as I pass by and I end up feeling bad for
thinking, “Who are you?” but continue on with a hello and a smile. It happens.
A lot. Haha For the most part, I am alone in the village. Quite a lot, too. It
seems like nobody is ever here because houses are spread out unless you’re on
the teachers’ quarters. Even then the teachers all leave and I am usually
enjoying my own company and privacy. I like my privacy so it’s okay. Being in
isolation is not too bad though. I’ve always found things to do and have been
reading/cooking/cleaning more than I ever have in my life! Haha I would be
using my laptop a lot more often to watch TV shows and movies but I live
without electricity. I have a sink with running water but likes to tease me and
runs out at the worst times. I have a LOT of water storage. I also have a pit
latrine which is pretty much an outhouse but I try to avoid using it as much as
I can because of all the bugs and mosquitoes that frequent it. I’ve cleaned it
well but the bugs just...bug! I’d like to pee or poo in peace, thank you very
much. What I AM grateful for is the stove/oven that was there when I arrived. I
really enjoy cooking and baking so that’s nice. Some people have an electric or
gas, 2-burner, hot plate. From what I hear it is sufficient for most. You
really adapt to these things and it is so much easier than you can imagine.
When I first found out I wouldn’t have electricity I was like, “What?! How will
I do this and that? Noooo!” Honestly, I just told myself to suck it up. It is
not that bad. You deal. You become stronger. You handle things braver than you
ever have before and you are proud of yourself for it.
My
experience has been great partly because I try to stay positive as much as I
can and realize what my boundaries are, although I sometimes tend to cross it
and feel awesome for doing it. It’s true, there will be things that are out of
your control and you will have to practice patience at these times. If it’s
necessary, scream or vent every once in a while. That’s okay. There are things
in this culture that may or may not frustrate you and annoy you. There will be
times that you may feel angry or confused. But the one piece of advice I was
given and will always remember is that you don’t have to accept things that are
rude or things that make you feel uncomfortable. It is okay to stand up for
yourself when necessary, even if it goes against certain values. The one thing
that is stressed is cultural sensitivity and cross-cultural values and I think
it is important to realize how different American culture is compared to
Batswana, the people of Botswana. Just appreciate the things that are different
without giving in to people who are rude or offensive. You don’t have to deal
with things that are inappropriate, no matter what culture. You’ll learn that
when you get here. I used to be scared of a lot of things but especially things
like insects, bugs, spiders, and the like. But when you are relaxing one
evening enjoying a good book and a bat flies into your home, you deal with it
or stay scared. I don’t mean to scare anyone but I’ve had several encounters
with bats and other scary things and I’m fine. I mean, I won’t lie, after the
first one I screamed, ran out of my house, and almost shat my pants. But all
the ones after I was fearful and brave! I like to remember the latter when I
tell people about my bat stories. These are the experiences I appreciate the
most: the experiences that test me, the ones that push my boundaries, and the
ones that have made me become a better, stronger person. And I know I will have
a lot more.
What I
hope you take from this is that this is just my experience. It differs from volunteer to volunteer and I hope
you understand this. I also hope that you understand that my experience won’t
be yours. Or anyone elses. You can make it what you want it to be, for the most
part. So for those of you contemplating whether or not to join the Peace Corps,
I say, “Why not?” You will learn so much about yourself and will realize how
much you can handle. If you do decide to leave for whatever reason, you can,
but I encourage you to pull through because it can be very rewarding. There
will be times you contemplate if you’re doing the right thing with your life
but really, that is up to you to decide. I think you can get a lot out of your
Peace Corps experience but the first step is to take it!
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